After 25 years of exploring getaways, I can say Southern California has a special kind of magic. You’ll find sandy beaches, breathtaking views, and a relaxed pace that instantly puts you at ease. I always recommend slipping away to one of these beautiful cottages, hotels, or inns for a weekend of real pampering and peaceful surroundings.

You can take romantic walks overlooking the ocean—something I never tire of. If you’re like me, you’ll want to schedule a massage right in your room. I’ve hiked the coastal trails, swam in sparkling pools, and even squeezed in a round of golf. However you spend your day, I always suggest ending it with a candlelit dinner featuring unforgettable farm-to-table cuisine.

Top picks for a:

  • Romantic getaway: I loved The Ritz-Carlton Bacara, Santa Barbara—you’ll adore the oceanfront charm.
  • Wine country escape: If you’re dreaming of rolling vineyards, I recommend The Inn at Churon Winery in Temecula.
  • Adults-only escape: I felt completely refreshed after staying at Del Marcos Hotel in Palm Springs. You will too.
  • Luxury experience: Treat yourself like I did at Cal-a-Vie Health Spa—it’s pure indulgence from start to finish.

Best Romantic Getaways in Southern California

For a luxury wellness retreat: Cal-a-Vie Health Spa

Cal-a-Vie Health Spa

For a luxury wellness retreat: Cal-a-Vie Health Spa - Discover wellness, enjoy peaceful spring days, and rejuvenate your body.                                    

For a luxury downtown location: Hotel Santa Barbara - 1 hour 50 minutes from LA

Hotel Santa Barbara

For a luxury downtown location: Hotel Santa Barbara - 1 hour 50 minutes from LA - Explore cultural sights, visit historic attractions, and walk along city streets.                                    

For a wine country escape: The Inn at Churon Winery, Temecula

The Inn at Churon Winery

For a wine country escape: The Inn at Churon Winery, Temecula - Savor gourmet food, admire vineyard views, and enjoy a romantic weekend.                                    

For a dreamy oceanfront escape: The Ritz-Carlton Bacara, Santa Barbara - 1 hour 50 minutes from LA

The Ritz-Carlton Bacara, Santa Barbara

For a dreamy oceanfront escape: The Ritz-Carlton Bacara, Santa Barbara - 1 hour 50 minutes from LA - Look at stunning designs, enjoy luxury, and see coastal sights.                                    

For a boutique experience: Holiday House, Palm Springs

Holiday House

For a boutique experience: Holiday House, Palm Springs - Enjoy a romantic trip, admire desert sunsets, and relax with your partner.                                    

For a secret retreat: Inn Paradiso, Paso Robles - 3 hours 30 minutes from LA

Inn Paradiso

For a secret retreat: Inn Paradiso, Paso Robles - 3 hours 30 minutes from LA - Unleash creative energy, discover unusual stuff, and enjoy a fall getaway.                                    

For wellness: Sycamore Mineral Springs Spa and Resort, San Luis Obispo - 3 hours from LA

Sycamore Mineral Springs Spa and Resort

For wellness: Sycamore Mineral Springs Spa and Resort, San Luis Obispo - 3 hours from LA - Explore outdoor trails, enjoy mineral springs, and relax with family.                                    

For an adults-only escape: Del Marcos Hotel, Palm Springs

Del Marcos Hotel

For an adults-only escape: Del Marcos Hotel, Palm Springs - Enjoy poolside lounging, see classic architecture, and have an easy weekend.                                    

For a city getaway: The Pearl Hotel, San Diego

The Pearl Hotel

For a city getaway: The Pearl Hotel, San Diego - Go on a quick trip, enjoy fun with young couples, and see San Diego sights.                                    

In Summary...

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