Want to say "I do" in stunning New York State? I’ve seen some truly breathtaking venues here—from mountaintop retreats to vineyard estates and elegant Hudson River mansions. If you’re planning your wedding and dreaming of a setting that feels unforgettable, I think you’ll love what New York has to offer. No matter your style, there’s a spot that feels just right.

Highlights:

  • Oheka Castle – Huntington – If you’ve ever imagined a fairytale wedding, I’d say this Gold Coast mansion is the real-life version. It’s grand, timeless, and seriously photogenic.
  • Cedar Lakes Estate – Hudson Valley – I love how this place combines luxury with laid-back charm. Lakeside ceremonies, mountain views, and rustic cabins—it’s a perfect balance.
  • Bassinova-on-Hudson – Hudson – I’ve seen some stunning riverfront weddings here. If you’re looking for sweeping Hudson River backdrops and a touch of elegance, this is one to check out.
  • Gedney Farm – Berkshires Border – I’m a sucker for barn weddings with a bit of polish, and this venue nails that vibe. It’s rustic, but with just the right amount of chic.
  • The Garrison – Hudson Highlands – This spot has it all: manicured gardens, a scenic golf course, and those unbeatable river and mountain views. I’ve recommended it to friends who wanted nature with a sophisticated twist.

Unique New York State Wedding Venues

FEAST at Round Hill

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FEAST at Round Hill - Savor garden views and gourmet menus at this romantic countryside retreat.                                     

Arrow Park Lake And Lodge

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Arrow Park Lake And Lodge - Celebrate by the lake at this peaceful, affordable woodland venue.                                     

Blenheim Hill Farm

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Blenheim Hill Farm - Enjoy rustic charm and farm-to-table feasts on a summer wedding day.                                     

Brooklyn Winery

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Brooklyn Winery - Say “I do” surrounded by barrels and wine-soaked couples vibes.                                     

Gotham Hall

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Gotham Hall - Admire soaring ceilings and dramatic architecture at this exciting Manhattan venue.                                     

Gratitude & Grace

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Gratitude & Grace - Host a charming barn wedding with family-friendly indoor and outdoor spaces.                                     

Greystone Castle

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Greystone Castle - Exchange vows in a fairy-tale setting with unusual stone towers.                                     

Highlands Country Club

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Highlands Country Club - Walk along scenic grounds for a spring ceremony in the Hudson Valley.                                     

Frequently Asked Questions:

  • What makes New York City a great wedding destination?
    • I’ve seen some of the most unforgettable weddings unfold right in the heart of New York City. You can say your vows on a rooftop with the skyline as your backdrop, in a historic Manhattan ballroom, or even aboard a yacht cruising past the Statue of Liberty. If you’ve ever dreamed of a bold, iconic wedding, you’ll find the perfect venue here.
  • What types of wedding venues are available outside of New York City?
    • I’ve been to countryside weddings that feel like something out of a movie. You can celebrate in a rustic 18th-century barn under the stars or book an Adirondack mountain lodge complete with a bonfire and fireworks. If you’re after fresh air, wide-open views, and a bit of peace, the upstate options are just as magical as the city ones.

Best Time to Plan a Wedding in New York State

  • May to October – I’ve seen so many gorgeous weddings during this stretch. You’ll enjoy mild to warm weather, beautiful scenery, and plenty of outdoor venue options.
  • June to September – If you're dreaming of lush greenery and sunny skies, this is the prime season. I’ve attended weddings everywhere from the Hudson Valley to the Adirondacks—and the settings are breathtaking.
  • May & October – I love these shoulder months for their color and charm. You’ll get blooming spring flowers or vibrant fall foliage, plus fewer crowds and often better availability.
  • July & August – These are the warmest months. If you’re planning a Finger Lakes or Catskills wedding, you’ll find picture-perfect lake days—just be sure to have shade or fans on hand.
  • November to April – I’ve seen cozy indoor weddings this time of year that felt like a fairytale. You can lean into the winter wonderland theme, save on venue costs, and create an intimate, snow-dusted celebration.

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