Weekend Getaways for Couples
Best romantic weekend getaways include luxury spa resorts, city hotels for couples, secluded country hideaways and other ideas.
Sometimes, all a relationship needs is a little space, and a change of scenery. Whether it’s a wine-country hideaway, a beachfront resort, or a cozy inn tucked into the trees, a weekend escape can shift everything. These romantic getaways weren’t about lavish gestures. They were about late breakfasts, shared sunsets, and the chance to remember why it all matters in the first place. From California to Connecticut, Florida to Oregon, these stays gave us the stillness to reconnect and the settings to make it feel easy again.
Best Weekend Getaways for Couples:
Riverside calm at River Terrace Inn in Napa
We drove about an hour north from San Francisco to Napa, where vineyard-covered hills and winding roads led me into California’s wine country.
River Terrace Inn brought us right to the edge of the Napa River, close enough to feel the stillness ripple through us.
From our balcony, I could watch the water move slowly. Cyclists and morning walkers passed quietly below. I remember thinking, “Everything about this place feels like an invitation to breathe.”
What I Loved Most: Taking a stroll along the riverwalk at dusk, the wine country air soft and sweet, our hands intertwined like it was the first date all over again.
My highlights? Dinner at ALBA, the hotel’s riverside restaurant. I had the seared scallops with sweet corn risotto and a chilled glass of Sauvignon Blanc. We shared a warm bread pudding for dessert and watched the river slip into darkness.
Plan your romantic escape:
- Location: River Terrace Inn, 1600 Soscol Ave, Napa, CA 94559
- Price: Starting at $299 per night
- Vibe: Relaxed, modern, riverside charm
- Best Time to Visit: Late spring or harvest season in the fall
- Amenities: Wine tastings, on-site dining, riverwalk access, luxury rooms with balconies
- Nearby Attractions: Downtown Napa, Oxbow Market, Silverado Trail wineries
Wellness and warmth at Two Bunch Palms, Desert Hot Springs
I drove about 20 minutes north from Palm Springs to Desert Hot Springs, a quiet desert town known for its natural mineral springs. The road carried me into wide-open desert views framed by distant mountains.
At Two Bunch Palms, the silence was part of the experience. This desert oasis is built around mineral springs that have been bubbling quietly for centuries.
To me, soaking in them under a canopy of palms felt deeply relaxing and restorative.
What I Loved Most: Floating in the warm waters of the grotto at sunrise, the steam rising around us like a veil. I liked how the desert was completely still except for birdsong.
My highlights? A nourishing lunch at Essence, their wellness-focused restaurant. I had the roasted cauliflower tacos with chipotle crema and a cucumber mint spritzer. It was fresh, flavorful, and quietly grounding, like everything else here.
Plan your romantic escape:
- Location: Two Bunch Palms, 67425 Two Bunch Palms Trail, Desert Hot Springs, CA 92240
- Price: Starting at $360 per night
- Vibe: Desert, spa, spiritually centered
- Best Time to Visit: Winter or early spring for cool desert mornings and hot spring evenings
- Amenities: Natural hot springs, spa, wellness programming, adults-only resort
- Nearby Attractions: Joshua Tree National Park, Palm Springs Art Museum, windmill tours
Whimsy and wonder at Winvian Farm, Morris
I drove about two hours north from New York City into the Litchfield Hills.
Winvian was like stepping into a dream you didn’t know you needed. Each cottage has its own story, from a treehouse in the sky to a helicopter-turned-suite, and walking through the property felt like turning pages in a fairytale. I remember thinking, “We’ve never stayed anywhere like this.” It was imaginative, indulgent, and completely ours for the weekend.
What I Loved Most: Our fireplace crackling as we sat in robes, sipping wine, the world outside forgotten and the weekend unfolding like magic.
My highlights? Dinner at the on-site restaurant was a revelation. I had the butter-poached lobster over fresh farm greens with champagne vinaigrette, followed by a chocolate souffle that left us both silent with joy.
Plan your romantic escape:
- Location: 155 Alain White Rd, Morris, CT 06763
- Price: Starting at $699 per night
- Vibe: Playful luxury, secluded, imaginative
- Best Time to Visit: Fall for foliage, winter for cozy cabin stays
- Amenities: Individually themed cottages, fine dining, spa, bikes, private fireplaces
- Nearby Attractions: White Memorial Conservation Center, Bantam Lake, Litchfield wineries
Chic energy at Gale South Beach
We drove about 20 minutes east from downtown Miami to Miami Beach.
Gale South Beach ($171) pulsed with style, a blend of Art Deco glamour and intimate corners that made the city feel personal. Just steps from Collins Avenue, it was perfectly placed for a weekend that could go from sun-soaked to candlelit without ever getting in a car. I remember thinking, “This is the kind of place where everything looks a little more golden.”
What I Loved Most: Late afternoon cocktails on the rooftop pool deck, wrapped in sea breeze and soft music, watching the sun slip behind South Beach’s historic skyline.
My highlights? Dinner at Dolce Italian, homemade burrata, truffle risotto, and limoncello panna cotta. Everything felt elevated but unfussy, like a secret date night that belonged only to us.
The downside? It’s noisy for light sleepers. South Beach is an expensive destination even if you don't plan on signing up for tours and activities.
Plan your romantic escape:
- Location: 1690 Collins Ave, Miami Beach, FL 33139
- Price: Starting at $225 per night
- Vibe: Trendy, retro-glam, coastal cool
- Best Time to Visit: Winter and spring for beach days and breezy nights
- Amenities: Rooftop pool, Italian dining, beach access, curated interiors
- Nearby Attractions: Lincoln Road, Ocean Drive, Bass Museum of Art
Golden-era romance at Ashland Springs Hotel
I drove about 15 minutes south from Medford to Ashland.
Ashland Springs Hotel felt like a love letter to a gentler era, polished brass, velvet seating, and windows that framed the Rogue Valley like a painting. There was something grounding about the space, something that made us slow down naturally. I remember thinking, “This feels like a page from someone’s beautiful past, and I want to stay on it.”
What I Loved Most: Waking up to soft morning light over downtown Ashland, the hush of early hours, and the soft rustle of room service trays rolling down the hall.
My highlights? A slow breakfast at Larks Home Kitchen Cuisine, steel-cut oats with Oregon hazelnuts, lemon ricotta pancakes, and the smoothest latte I’ve had in months. Local, warm, and just the right kind of indulgent.
Plan your romantic escape:
- Location: 212 E Main St, Ashland, OR 97520
- Price: Starting at $169 per night
- Vibe: Vintage elegance, artistic, literary
- Best Time to Visit: Summer for the Oregon Shakespeare Festival, fall for cozy charm
- Amenities: Spa services, historic charm, award-winning dining, downtown location
- Nearby Attractions: Lithia Park, OSF theaters, Rogue Valley wineries
Oceanfront bliss at Hammock Beach Resort, Palm Coast
I drove about 30 minutes south from St. Augustine along the coast to Palm Coast, a quieter stretch of Florida shoreline framed by dunes and palm trees.
Hammock Beach Resort gave us a view we couldn’t turn away from, the Atlantic rolling in with rhythm and roar, framed by palms and pink-tinged sky. It felt like a place where time stretched just for us. I remember thinking, “This is what it means to really unplug, and to fall in sync with someone again.”
What I Loved Most: Sharing a sunrise walk along the private beach, barefoot in the cool sand, waves tugging at our ankles and conversation floating quietly between us.
My highlights? Dinner at Atlantic Grille was coastal simplicity at its best. I had the blackened grouper with coconut rice and grilled pineapple salsa. Each bite tasted like summer, even in the middle of February.
Plan your romantic escape:
- Location: Hammock Beach Resort , 200 Ocean Crest Dr, Palm Coast, FL 32137
- Price: Starting at $275 per night
- Vibe: Coastal, spacious, laid-back luxury
- Best Time to Visit: Spring and early fall for warmth without crowds
- Amenities: Beach access, golf, spa, pools, oceanfront dining
- Nearby Attractions: Washington Oaks Gardens State Park, Marineland, St. Augustine
Seaside serenity at La Jolla Hotel and Spa
I drove about 20 minutes north from downtown San Diego to La Jolla.
In La Jolla, everything slows, the waves, the wind, even the way you speak to each other. La Jolla Hotel & Spa was perched just right, giving us a view of sea cliffs and surfers, with soft sea air drifting in through the open windows. I remember thinking, “We don’t need plans, just this view and each other.”
What I Loved Most: Sharing a couple’s massage followed by a quiet soak in the spa courtyard, where even the breeze seemed to whisper.
My highlights? Dinner at the oceanview terrace, I had the grilled swordfish with lemon herb butter, paired with a rosé that caught the golden light. The sun dipped as we toasted to whatever comes next.
Plan your romantic escape:
- Location: (Check for specific hotel, multiple boutique options in La Jolla Village)
- Price: Starting at $289 per night
- Vibe: Breezy, coastal, restorative
- Best Time to Visit: Late spring or early fall for ocean breezes and fewer crowds
- Amenities: Spa services, ocean views, coastal dining, walking distance to the cove
- Nearby Attractions: La Jolla Cove, Torrey Pines, Birch Aquarium
If You Dream of Sleeping in a Castle, Stay at Kilkea Castle in Ireland
We drove about an hour southwest from Dublin into County Kildare.
The halls of Kilkea Castle echoed with history. Ivy climbed the stone walls outside, and candlelight flickered in medieval sconces. We spent the afternoon exploring the grounds hand in hand, rain-softened paths beneath our boots, the scent of moss and old wood in the air. I thought, “We’re inside a storybook.”
That night, we dined in the fine dining room. I ordered venison with blackberry jus, earthy and rich, and he had pan-seared turbot that melted into a pool of lemon and butter. Dessert was a dark chocolate tart that snapped under the fork. We slept in a tower suite with vaulted ceilings and velvet drapes that whispered with every breeze.
Plan your day trip:
- Drive Time from Dublin: ~1 hour west
- Vibe: Regal, historic, intimate
- Highlights: Castle suites, falconry, walled gardens
- Best Time to Visit: Spring and fall for cool weather and fewer tourists
- Cost: Rooms start ~$400/night; dining additional
- Hours: Open year-round; restaurant hours vary by season
Kata Rocks Resort and Residences
I drove about an hour south from Phuket International Airport along winding coastal roads to Kata Rocks, a sleek resort perched above the Andaman Sea.
“Is this real?” I whispered as I stepped onto our private infinity pool deck at Kata Rocks Resort, the Andaman Sea glowing pink in the distance. The villa smelled faintly of lemongrass and jasmine, and every surface was cool and smooth beneath my fingers. It felt like we were floating.
We watched the sun slide behind the cliffs, glass doors open to the breeze. Dinner was delivered to our suite, tamarind-glazed sea bass and coconut rice, with mango sticky rice for dessert. The flavors were bright and layered, salty-sweet with a hum of chili. Later, we soaked under the stars, the air thick and fragrant with orchids.
Plan your day trip:
- Drive Time from Phuket International Airport: ~1 hour south
- Vibe: Sleek, tropical, secluded
- Highlights: Infinity pools, oceanfront villas, luxury spa
- Best Time to Visit: November to April for dry weather
- Cost: Villas start ~$800/night; meal service optional
- Hours: 24-hour reception; spa and restaurant open daily
Conclusion: Where Time Slows Together
Each of these places made space for silence, for laughter, for slow breakfasts and unscheduled afternoons. They weren’t just beautiful, they were designed to help couples reconnect. We left each one feeling both full and light, like time had softened around us.
Conclusion
We didn’t just check into hotels , we stepped into versions of ourselves we sometimes forget to make time for. These weekends offered us more than rest. They gave us rhythm, laughter, and new memories to carry home. Whether you’re soaking in hot springs under desert palms or watching waves roll in from a coastal suite, one thing becomes clear: the best kind of love doesn’t need much, just a little time, and the right place to hold it.
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