Things to Do in New York State
New York State (where I lived for 10 years and still return often to visit family) is a place of incredible variety, stretching far beyond the bright lights of New York City. From the majestic Adirondack Mountains and the beauty of the Finger Lakes to historic towns and scenic river valleys, the state offers endless opportunities for adventure, relaxation, and cultural discovery.
I’ve hiked along mountain trails with sweeping views, explored charming towns filled with history and character, and enjoyed lakeside escapes that felt worlds away from the city. Whether you’re planning a weekend getaway, a family vacation, or a road trip through the state, New York is full of unforgettable destinations and experiences. Here are the ones I recommend, and I think you’ll enjoy them too.
1. Walking with Wonder at Cornell Botanic Gardens
From downtown Ithaca, it was just a 10-minute drive (3 miles uphill) to the Cornell Botanic Gardens, a living museum tied to Cornell University since 1944.
Free to visit, the gardens and natural areas now span more than 3,600 acres, with 12 specialty gardens and 40 acres of cultivated landscapes.
I couldn’t believe how fun and affordable it was to explore such a unique mix of cultivated gardens and wild natural beauty.
What I loved most was how the gardens had a little bit of everything—colorful flowerbeds, serene ponds, woodland trails, and even themed collections that made every turn an exciting surprise. It felt like the absolute best spot for both a romantic stroll and a joyful family weekend outing. I really enjoyed taking photos here, and the vibrant colors looked incredible in my pictures.
The location near Cayuga Lake added to the magic. I thought it was so cool to wander from the manicured gardens into the quiet trails that led into the natural areas. It gave me the feeling of having both a hidden retreat and a lively educational space in one place. I found myself spending hours exploring, and still felt like there was more to see.
The Cornell Botanic Gardens truly struck me as one of the most exciting and unusual attractions in New York State. It’s not as famous as some other destinations, but to me that makes it even more special. If you’re planning a getaway to Ithaca or the Finger Lakes, visiting here is a brilliant idea—you’ll experience an exceptional mix of natural wonder, peace, and inspiration all in one spot.
Where I Stayed: I checked into the Statler Hotel ($195) on Cornell’s campus. With views over the rolling landscape and access to campus paths, it felt both elevated and welcoming.
2. Play & Poise in Rochester
From Buffalo, it was about a 1-hour 15-minute drive east (75 miles via I-90) to Rochester, a city of roughly 210,000.
Known as the birthplace of Eastman Kodak, Xerox, and Bausch & Lomb, the city’s industrial past still shapes its identity.
Rochester, NY, is one of those places that truly surprised me with how much it has to offer—it’s a cool blend of history, culture, food, and outdoor fun. Located on the southern shore of Lake Ontario, between Buffalo and Syracuse, it’s often underrated compared to bigger cities, but I think that makes it one of New York State’s best hidden gems.
I loved wandering through the Strong National Museum of Play, which felt like the ultimate joyful, family-friendly destination. If you’re into art, the Memorial Art Gallery is spectacular, with collections spanning centuries. For something outdoors, the Highland Park and Durand Eastman Park were dreamy spots to stroll among vibrant gardens and lake views. In summer, the Rochester Lilac Festival is one of the coolest events—it makes the whole city feel vibrant and alive.
Rochester feels romantic if you’re on a couple’s trip, but also perfect for a family getaway. To me, it’s an exceptional city with a unique spirit—cool, vibrant, and definitely worth a weekend visit.
3. White Plains: A Pause Just Outside the City
From Manhattan, it was about a 40-minute drive north to White Plains, a city of around 59,000 that played a pivotal role in the Revolutionary War.
I stopped at the Battle of White Plains Park (site of the 1776 clash between Washington’s troops and the British), then browsed the White Plains Historical Society Museum (free entry, housed in the Jacob Purdy House, circa 1721).
White Plains feels like one of the best gateways to the Hudson Valley. It’s convenient, with a Metro-North stop that makes weekend getaways effortless. I thought it was exciting how the city combines sleek high-rises and lively nightlife with leafy parks and quiet corners. To me, it’s both a practical hub and a fun destination, perfect for a quick trip or even a longer stay.
4. Letting Curiosity Take the Lead at miSci in Schenectady
From Albany, it was just a 25-minute drive northwest to Schenectady. Known as “The Electric City” for its ties to General Electric and the American Locomotive Company, Schenectady played a huge role in U.S. industry.
I explored the Museum of Innovation and Science ($10 admission), which covers GE’s inventions and space research.
Downtown’s Stockade Historic District is one of the oldest neighborhoods in the U.S., dating to 1661. I admired Dutch-era architecture and cobblestone streets.
For me, miSci blended play and discovery with poise and curiosity. Whether you’re planning a family day trip, a romantic weekend in the Capital Region, or just want to explore something cool and different, this museum is an exceptional choice. It’s one of those experiences where learning feels like pure fun—and that’s the absolute best kind of travel memory.
5. Feeling the Roar at Cave of the Winds
From Buffalo, it was a quick 30-minute drive north (20 miles via I-190) to Niagara Falls State Park, the oldest state park in the U.S. (est. 1885). The Cave of the Winds tour ($21 admission) takes you by elevator 175 feet down into the Niagara Gorge, where wooden walkways bring you within feet of Bridal Veil Falls.
When I finally made it to Cave of the Winds at Niagara Falls, I knew I had found one of the most spectacular and thrilling experiences in New York State. Tucked right into the heart of Niagara Falls State Park, this adventure was the absolute best way to feel the raw power and magic of the falls up close.
I loved how the journey started with an elevator ride deep into the Niagara Gorge—already exciting and unusual—and then opened up into wooden walkways that led right to the base of the Bridal Veil Falls. My favorite spot was the legendary Hurricane Deck, where I stood just a few feet from the thunderous cascade. The wind, the spray, and the sheer force of the water made it feel like stepping into a dream. It was wild, joyful, and completely unforgettable.
What made Cave of the Winds even cooler was how affordable and accessible it felt. Whether you’re planning a family getaway or a romantic weekend, this is such a brilliant idea for an outing that combines excitement with natural wonder. I thought it was the most unique way to experience Niagara Falls—not just seeing it from afar but actually being part of its energy.
To me, this was more than a tourist attraction; it was a vibrant and exceptional adventure that left me buzzing with adrenaline. If you want a hidden gem that truly captures the coolest spirit of New York’s natural wonders, Cave of the Winds is an absolute must-visit—you’ll walk away soaked, smiling, and filled with awe.
6. Playing and Learning at the Mid-Hudson Discovery Museum
From New York City, it was about a 1.5-hour drive north (75 miles via the Taconic Parkway) to Poughkeepsie, a city of roughly 31,000. Metro-North’s Hudson Line from Grand Central to Poughkeepsie takes about the same time ($21 peak fare).
When I visited the Mid-Hudson Discovery Museum in Poughkeepsie with my son, it instantly became one of our favorite memories in the Hudson Valley. Right along the riverfront and near the Walkway Over the Hudson, it felt like a hidden gem that was both playful and inspiring for the whole family.
My son was absolutely thrilled with the hands-on exhibits. We explored science stations, climbed through imaginative play spaces, and built things together that sparked so much joy and laughter. I loved watching him experiment and discover—it made the whole experience feel exciting, vibrant, and full of energy. For me, seeing the museum through his eyes was the absolute best part of our visit.
What stood out to me most was how the museum made learning fun. My son was captivated by the unusual and unique exhibits that connected back to the Hudson Valley’s nature and history, while I appreciated how affordable and family-friendly the whole experience was. It felt like such a brilliant idea for a weekend outing, and we both walked away smiling.
After exploring indoors, we stepped outside together and enjoyed the spectacular views of the Hudson River. That moment felt magical—combining the joy of discovery with the calm of a riverside stroll. For me, the Mid-Hudson Discovery Museum isn’t just a children’s museum; it’s an exceptional family destination that gave us both a joyful and unforgettable day. If you’re traveling with kids, this is easily one of the coolest and most underrated spots in New York State.
7. Cutchogue Calm & North Fork Sips
From New York City, it was about a 2-hour drive east to Cutchogue, a hamlet of around 3,300 people in the town of Southold.
When I made my way out to Cutchogue, on the North Fork of Long Island, I felt like I had discovered one of New York’s most underrated gems. This charming little hamlet in Suffolk County is surrounded by vineyards, farms, and coastline, and it quickly became one of my favorite spots for a dreamy, laid-back getaway.
I loved how vibrant the local wine trail was—some of the absolute best vineyards and tasting rooms in the state are tucked right here. Sipping wine among the rolling vines with my family felt magical, and many of the wineries were affordable and welcoming, with live music or cozy patios that made the whole experience joyful and relaxed. My favorite stop was at a boutique vineyard where the vibe felt both hidden and spectacular.
Beyond wine, I thought it was so cool how Cutchogue offered a mix of farm stands, local markets, and quiet country roads. Driving around, I stumbled on fresh produce stands and artisanal goods that made me feel connected to the land. It was the kind of unusual and authentic experience that made me want to linger longer.
The beaches nearby were another highlight. I walked along the calm shores of Peconic Bay and felt like I had the coast to myself—so peaceful, so romantic, and yet perfect for a family picnic too. To me, Cutchogue is an exceptional blend of natural beauty, local flavor, and hidden treasures. If you’re dreaming of a unique and vibrant Long Island escape, this is one of the coolest places to explore.
8. Capitol Calm & Crisp Crusts in Albany
From New York City, it was about a 2.5-hour drive north to Albany, a city of roughly 100,000 and one of the oldest chartered cities in the U.S. (1686).
When we spent a weekend in Albany, I quickly realized it’s one of New York State’s most underrated cities. Nestled on the Hudson River, just a couple hours north of New York City, it’s a cool mix of history, culture, food, and hidden gems that gave me one of my favorite affordable getaways.
I loved exploring the New York State Capitol, which felt absolutely spectacular with its ornate staircases and grand architecture. My favorite moment was standing on the Million Dollar Staircase, where the carvings and details made the whole building feel magical. Right outside, the Empire State Plaza added a vibrant modern contrast with its reflecting pools, art installations, and skyline views—it was one of the coolest places to take photos.
What really won me over was Albany’s cultural scene. The New York State Museum was both unusual and inspiring, with exhibits that stretched from natural history to local stories. I thought it was such a brilliant idea to include both science and culture in one space. I also enjoyed the Albany Institute of History & Art, which gave me a deeper appreciation for the Hudson Valley’s heritage. Both spots were affordable, family-friendly, and truly exceptional.
Of course, no trip would be complete without some local food, and Paisan’s Pizza instantly became my favorite. I loved grabbing a slice after a long day of exploring—the flavors were vibrant, the atmosphere felt casual and joyful, and it was the absolute best way to end an evening in Albany. To me, this city is a hidden gem where history, culture, and food all come together in a spectacular way.
9. Riverside Stillness in Watertown
Driving in from the Thousand Islands (about 40 minutes, 30 miles southwest), Watertown made a great base for outdoor fun.
When I visited Watertown in northern New York, I found it to be one of the most underrated gems near the Thousand Islands and the Canadian border. Set along the Black River, this vibrant city offered me a mix of outdoor adventure, history, and small-town charm that felt both exciting and affordable.
One of my favorite experiences was heading to Thompson Park, designed by Frederick Law Olmsted (the same landscape genius behind Central Park). The rolling hills, scenic trails, and the small zoo made it such a joyful spot for a family weekend. I thought it was brilliant how it combined natural beauty with a community feel. The views from the park were spectacular and instantly became some of my favorite photos from the trip.
For history lovers, Watertown has some unusual treasures. I enjoyed learning about its past at the Jefferson County Historical Society Museum, tucked inside an old mansion that gave me a unique glimpse into the region’s story. I also discovered the city is the birthplace of the safety pin—a quirky fact that made my visit feel even more fun and unusual.
What stood out most to me, though, was the outdoor adventure. With the Black River running right through town, whitewater rafting and kayaking here are some of the absolute best in New York State. The energy of the rapids mixed with the calm charm of the city felt like the coolest balance of play and relaxation. To me, Watertown is a hidden gem—romantic for a couple’s trip, exciting for a family, and exceptional as a gateway to the Thousand Islands and Adirondacks.
Conclusion
Looking back on all of these incredible destinations across New York State—from the playful joy of the Mid-Hudson Discovery Museum to the thrilling spray of Cave of the Winds, the peaceful vineyards of Cutchogue, the grandeur of Albany’s Capitol, and the adventurous charm of Watertown—I realized how much variety this state has to offer. Each place felt like its own unique gem, with something unusual, vibrant, and unforgettable to discover. What I loved most was how every stop gave me a different kind of joy: sometimes exciting and spectacular, other times calm, romantic, or family-friendly, but always exceptional. To me, exploring New York State is about more than checking off places on a map—it’s about finding those hidden treasures that make every trip feel magical, memorable, and absolutely the best kind of adventure.
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